Your Forced Positivity Is Making Me Nauseous

Your forced positivity is making us all feel negative. 

When you delete your friends because

1. They are having problems and you block them
2. When your family member or friend is struggling with addiction or some other form of illness and you ignore them because they aren't being positive
3. When you criticize someone for feeling upset, angry, and or sad
4. When you constantly tell others "just try being positive" 

And when you refer to everyone as toxic, negative, or otherwise beneath your "awakened ass"  You are the negative one. The toxic ones and the "normal" people living life as it comes, enjoying the experiences of what it is to live, and even the sad, times, hard times, and miserable times, they are doing what all of us do, live in the moment and actually go through and deal with what comes there way, instead of masking it and pretending that everything is "positive" so you can be so " positive'.  

That is not the reality of life, it is not what life is meant to be either. No one is going to reach complete "spiritual" bliss until they are deceased.  Life is about learning, growing, experiencing "everything" and finding the solutions, the path, and the best way for them to bring happiness again, even when there are some background noise and drama. 

Of course, I am not implying that we shouldn't find the lessons in situations or see if we can't find an upside to something, but we first go through the natural emotions of what has occurred. That is being human. 

People go through things in life and as a friend or loved one, it is the strongest, the most loving, loyal, and emphatic people that stand by them and help them through it.  Honestly, it IS the weak ones that can't be there for them because it's too toxic and negative, and they don't have the strength, loyalty, or empathy to do it.

I know, there are people, whether we love them or just like them that are constantly mean, negative, and really toxic person - examples I can think of are:

1. Always putting you down
2. Always judging you and others in a bad way
3. Always borrowing and never returning - and sometimes even if they do return, always borrowing is taking advantage of you
4. Always ignoring you unless they need or want something
5. Avoiding you while pretending to like you
6. Dismissing your feelings and problems 

Just my thoughts, no need to take them to heart;_

~Sobria~